It seems like he is testing himself to see how his emotions will be when he meets you. Showing up to a public court with No Balls, Press J to jump to the feed. This is obviously the wrong forum to post in, but I figured I'd get the most views here. Only if you can hide away safely in their closet before they get home. That's the only reason why you came over? This part was a huge mistake: You essentially became the renewed pursuer by asking her to see you again in some way, an offer that she summarily dodged. It was crazy because it would only causing more pain for myself. He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they showed up. In addition, attorneys often put orders against harassment in divorce, custody and visitation judgments, which may also be violated by showing up unannounced at the other party's home. Call the police and make a complaint. I think it's wayyyy too early to tell. And I got really mad, saying that I felt like she used me, I felt like a two-year crutch. I even told her that my mistake was not letting her go and letting her deal with her issues on her own instead of making her problems, my problems. I say be very, very careful. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By If you have questions about the community, or concerns about posters, please reach out to the mod team. LOL. Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. My thoughts exactly. Its such a sad situation. OK, often "sorry" is just short for "Ha ha, I screwed you over and there's nothing you can do about it. What else is new, huh? He either needs to believe you and move on with you, or not believe you and end it once and for all. He sounds downright manipulative to me. I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. If you would like to change your settings or withdraw consent at any time, the link to do so is in our privacy policy accessible from our home page.. We have encountered a ridiculous amount of comments that don't follow the rules and are downright nasty. Yes the showing up unannounced is a bad sign! He is acting just like I did, completely irrationally and confused. Did she come in and make coffee, and demand you to go get her the creamer she likes? Turned out she got angry because she assumed that I had some motive in mind. Retroactive jealousy is affecting our relationship, what should we do? The trust is completely broken, it will take him a long time to get over this. Izzy1234 He just wanted to bully and intimidate me. I dont know how to fix this honestly. Just imagine if you were dating someone. I think that as long as there is some attraction between both parties, the power struggle will continue. 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This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. You are not alone. This is a tough call dude. I kept saying to her, So that's it? She said our relationship was good for people who were a bit older, but not for college kids, which I agreed with her on. A lot of subtle tests too, saying like 'Well you don't have to see me anymore'. Just Me85March 30, 2009 in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships. My SO is upset with me over this decision. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. You may have screwed up, but he's going to be using this excuse to bully you. Do what you do, be kind, gentle, respectful, and apprutiate her the way she is, because at one point she was your best friend and partner. I just always tell him the same thing. Something is fishy here. What do you think? It's my ex-girlfriend. Press I love him with all my heart but he just will not believe me. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. I ended up texting her this morning and here was the interaction: Me: Honestly, I have no idea why you came or what to believe but after all of that last night, I just can't leave it like that. Few or no close male friends. Only the one in her head. if they wanna see you, you'll know. Her: Again I thought you should knowSorry If I confused you or bothered you. 3 weeks later I caught her. We recently filed charges against my ex for harassment etc. Izzy1234 Perhaps this was a mistake on my part. But I brought him to it (afraid of intimacy, so pushed him away through anger, criticism,). But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. But now he seems to be adamant of finding new non truths. I guess they start to get a little nutty when you ignore them for weeks. My boyfriends bm is a HC at times. We'll see what happens. She's clearly a mess right now and I don't want to get drug back into this. It's freezing outside. .s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);padding-top:5px}.s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f._19JhaP1slDQqu2XgT3vVS0{color:#ea0027} What would she have done if you showed up unannounced like that and in that form? Commiserate with others in similar situations, celebrate your wins, and hang out with people who just get it. ._1sDtEhccxFpHDn2RUhxmSq{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-flow:row nowrap;flex-flow:row nowrap}._1d4NeAxWOiy0JPz7aXRI64{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText)}.icon._3tMM22A0evCEmrIk-8z4zO{margin:-2px 8px 0 0} You are adverse, Dana Perino South Carolina House . Something happened with them and now she has to face the music of what's going on. She just hadnt got an answer from him to confirm he was in fact getting the child. She seems less and less. We also really wouldnt want him texting and driving, cell phone usage near schools is also illegal and bc you know the schedule, you can always offer reassurance if shes unable to reach him. She asks me to tell her what I heard. toughlove1993 Was a weak attempt at humor as everyone else has already given the best advice. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. I don't think there's good advice to be given here because you're in such a grey area. Ask Your Own Parenting Question. Im finding it hard because I think NC is best but I dont want to make him think that Ive moved on and am "already seeing other guys" like he suggests. He showed up to my house unannounced the next day to repeat what we had already discussed. Also, she was very codependant on me. Sometimes it's genuine, sometimes it's a form of gloating. What would you do in this FACEBOOK/Match.com situation? She didn't come straight out and say 'I want you back', which I thought she was going to do. Share this conversation. I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. I hate her and her audacity and crazy. We have a lot of mutual friends and maybe that's her way of moving on. (Also not the first time shes done this type of thing), Side note** she often uses being a mom as an excuse for her poor behavior because moms just worry so shes just being a mom . I know you love him and I know how painful it can be for you when you just want to be with him but right now you need to work on yourself and leave him to come to you. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. In reality she knew what she had except for some of my flaws and didnt know what to do. The link is not clear, but angry attachment interferes with male bonding. 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